I have to confess that I made big dent in my DB progress. I had been checking phone records and noticed a block a couple different times from a number I didnt recognize. I looked it up and it was a guy that she knows from a startup brewery that her and her friend were hleping at. I called her and asked her to come over that we needed she to talk. I wanted to see her mannerisms and body language. I confronted her about them and she explained their nature.
Had she committed to no dating while the two of you are separated?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!