It is sad and while I realize this is more common it doesn't change what we profess to believe and what H professed to believe freely up until two years ago. Just because you can get away with it doesn't mean it isn't shocking and not even required. H literally became someone else that thinks nothing of being dishonest just to be dishonest. Technically if they married this is a felony. Even if they didn't it is a tangled web of willful fraud. People don't think badly of middle aged people living together either. Wouldn't that be less destructive?
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou
