Some other parts of our interaction when I picked up the kids. Everytime I went to get in the car, she wanted to talk about something else about the kids. She also questioned why I suggested a neutral location to talk rather than the house, she said it was still her house too. I did say that she decided to leave it, it can be her investment still but it's my home at the moment. I had suggested she could just do things by email as she had been telling people she was scared of me and didn't like being around me and that i thought it would be easier for her rather than having to see me too often. She still wanted to get together to talk and "open a line of communication".
She did also mention that she sees the work I have been doing on myself especially towards the kids.