LT - I completely relate to your situation and I just want to say how much I admire you and am cheering you on from afar. As time moves forward my H seems to be more mentally unstable but perhaps I was just naive? Regardless protecting my girls and being their rock is my main focus these days.
Hope you are feeling better. Sending you virtual soup and tea.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou