I'm going to ask you a couple of questions and I'd like you to think about it for a while before responding. Okay? Do you think Cali is trying to understand what he father did w/his life? Do you think that what she's doing right now is her way of trying to get her father's attention?
I feel for you. You've already been down this road w/Matt and now Cali is traveling that road. I pray that she'll stop w/the "justifications" for why she's using and get some help. It's disheartening to watch a young lady, who is highly intelligent, ruin her life like this.
I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. You've had so much on your plate for so long and I had high hopes that things would finally settle down when you moved "south".
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
