Patience is the key I guess, but I just want to throw this out to any of you good people to answer.
Over the past week, W has started to be more friendly towards me. She has asked me to have the kids more, has started smiling at me more readily and has started to send me photos of the kids on 'whatsapp'. I notice she has also started to wear high heel shoes when she comes (she knows this turns me on) and has made comments about being alone with the kids all the time.
I'm just curious if I'm missing a trick? Should I start making noises about her coming back or should I just leave well alone? She has said that she will have the kids all day when they are off school, on her own, and not looking forward to it. I could say 'well, tat's what you wanted', but I don't want to seem cold.
It's just a confidence thing really. Am I doing the right thing, or should I be proactive? My head tells me to stand firm and wait; my heart says lull her back!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
