[BrightFuture]

Small update. First, for GAL. Had a happy hour on Friday at work. Went to my sister’s yesterday. And today I was invited for a BBQ at my neighbor’s for her B-day (this is a neighbor and a friend who went with me to the vacation home place last time and who I can still talk to about my sitch and not being pressures on any action.)

H has been in more contact via texts and e-mails. I sent him an e-mail with the attachment of the letter from the condo mortgage company where they are threatening to not take any more payments, because we didn’t pay the full amount on the last one (like H instructed me I paid the “old” amount, disregarding the inflated escrow.) I also asked him what he wanted to do about the taxes this year.

Got an e-mail back from him… He gladly decided to do the joint taxes this year again. And he vented about the mortgage (he actually said, that he was “just venting”.) So, I’m going to validate his “venting” regarding the mortgage. His texts are also coming at some odd times… Like after 10 pm my time… I don’t remember when I got his texts this late at night, especially after the BD. He would either text me before that, or wait for the next day. Not sure if he feels more at ease with me, or he does it deliberately… I kind of feel that he wants to remind about himself more these days.

I’m going to a car dealership tomorrow. I need a new car. Mine is 15 years old and I need to replace it before I spend any more money on the repairs. It will be the first time in my life when I will go car shopping on my own.

Then, on Thursday, I’m going to the vacation home. This time I can stay at the condo and I’m not taking anyone with me, just my dog. I’m looking forward to the relaxing time and walks on the beach. The condo might look completely different, as H did some re-painting and re-decorating, but I don’t care. To me it is a free rental, where I still should have my stuff, like some clothes, dog stuff, etc… I will see if it is still there… I assume it is… judging from H’s comments…