well I failed...My H asked to come see the boys I said ok. The boys have been acting up so I thought it would be nice. He then proceeded to tell me I will be emailed the divorce decree this week? WHAT?? never received anything before this I told him I would not sign...spew spew spew I validated the best I could. He said why can't you let me go. I said I love you and owe it to my boys to fight for us. After discussing some things..he agreed to therapy at the VA. I have no clue if it will help us but if it helps him then I can live with it. I told him that on our 20th session I will sign the papers...How bad did I screw this up?
