Thank you Job, 2times and HW. It's crazy to think I thought H family had it so together. Now, with my eyes wide open, it's all becoming so clear. It angers me and saddens me at the same time, but I can't change them or the past. I can however make a difference moving forward. Another new goal for me is to be much more aware and verbal about praise.
We were the picture perfect example of therapy at work today! Lol. I picked up S from H. While we were standing all together, I told H, thank you again for your help around the house yesterday. H said, your welcome. I said S, can you thank daddy too? S made a scrunched up face. H said, oh, it's ok. I said, S, can you thank daddy? (With my tone) S said thank you daddy. H said, oh, you're welcome bud. And thank you for helping me around my house today. We agreed together, S has been doing really good with that.
So, validation all around!
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-