Vise, it's been a while since I've commented but your one of the few people is till read up on because I can see many of thr thingd I faced in your sitch.
You are still in denial and grasping for tiny things that mean anything. Also you mention eexpectations but you have them still, I know how difficult it is to stop them but it's important to understand the reality. You get frustrated and angry at her becaue she does or doesn't do/say certain things. She talks about herself and doesn't ask about you and you get upset. It's your expectation that she would care and provide those things to you. It's your expectation she not stay out or wear her ring. This is the reality you want and not her reality. We all get told something at BD and our hearts are ripped out of our chests. Our S hurt us then. We continue to look for signs and have expectations from someone who has told us they are done, we hurt ourselves.
There are many things you can continue to improve about yourself and grow in. I see how scary it is, I do. I'm facing the same fears on being alone and social anxiety. Not being able to talk to people, etc.
Challenge your thoughts when you can. You want W back, understandable, but she's told you what she wants. Its likely she may file for D once you two move out.
She's not sending you a sign she doesn't want to separate by wearing the necklace. Same goes if she talks to you or wants to watch a movie or even if something happens and she needs you or wants to do something with you. It's about her right now, that's it.
If at some point things change and she does want to pursue R you won't have to piece little things together, you will know. Until then work on you.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
