It really does amaze me sometimes how they forget what they said in the past. When my h says something like "Why don't you do so and so anymore?" I'll reply that he told me he never wanted me to do that or wear that or cook that or whatever again, so I don't. He'll look at me in complete surprise and ask, "When did I say that?"
I agree with Job. MIL's and FIL's don't see the error of their ways and in some instances they just keep on doing the same harmful things they've always done. The sad part is you and I and and the kids and everyone else in a similar sitch pay the price for their failings.
Hope you have a great Sunday. Sounds like it will be a lot like mine.
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013