Vanilla, thank you for your kind words. Ciluzen, thank you for your support. We are of the same generation married for the same time. I'll come visit your thread. Jelly, as I think of what to write, no words come to mind but I am smiling, which says it all.

I think part of the reason I don't have much to say is that the shock has worn off and I have accepted my situation. I have begun to notice the interactions of couples I see in my daily life. I am looking to see how a loving wife looks at her husband. I know it is only a snapshot in a lifetime but the eyes don't lie. It is nice to see look of love.



“Character is destiny” Heraclitus