Just putting the below quote here as a reminder for me. Saw this post by Thornton and it is something that I need to constantly remind myself, especially today.
quote=Thornton
"DB is a process, not a quick fix. It's series of several thousand baby steps. Don't fight your W moving out. It will FEEL like it the absolute end of your R but it's just one of the steps you need to take.
Stay the course and trust the process. Don't give her any reasons to not doubt her decisions.
She wants to leave? Let her leave. She thinks all her problems will magically dissipate. In reality, it's a jungle out there.
Now is the time for you to become so incredibly bada$$, that if W is blind to your progress, eventually you will meet someone that puts your W to shame.
I've been putting all my focus on the gym lately. I train like I'm Rocky Balboa preparing to fight the big Russian lol. I use my pain as the fuel to keep going, to stay motivated.
Find something that drives you. Something to be passionate about. That will help take your mind off of W. Make her regret her decision, D."
