My WW is about to leave her family that she has been staying with since she left MH and move into an apartment with one of her girlfriends that is also a WW and getting a D from her H because "she just isn't happy". They both have the same laundry list of specific complaints about husbands and have been and will more than likely continue to feed off of each other.
I have concerns about the thought of my kids staying over there with not one, but TWO WW's and their behavior/house guests, lifestyle, etc. This is I think probably worst case scenario for hopes of reconciliation. They will comfort and support each other and "get through it" together. I will discuss this with my L, but I don't think there is much that can be done unless I pursue sole custody. I guess this is better than an OM scenario but at the same time the OM scenario would be instant reality and this will just be more of a fantasy world.
WW feels compelled to tell me about it and I just tried to be excited for her and congratulate her on her place. She is going to be coming to get some of her stuff, but I am not sure if she is going to want to take all of it, or use the MH like a storage unit. Either way it will be boxed and in the garage. I want to insist that she takes all her stuff, or give her a timeline to make arrangements ( two weeks, one month etc). I feel like if she is going to go, she needs be gone. I don't want to wonder if she is going to come by to grab something or use it as an excuse to swing by when i'm @ work.
I am getting better @ detaching. I was able to predict this roommate sitch, and it really help me prepare and not be caught of guard. Only freaked out for about an hour....lol Luckily she had no clue since she wasn't around.
Sandi, Squiggy, anyone, Thoughts on the roommate sitch??
