Way Too Late Pt 3

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Disregard! I'm sorry, got my threads mixed up. Your mother is sick.

Hi Sandi - I guess if dementia is sick, then yeah. I won't tell her she can't go to Easter dinner with the IL's, because they will invite her. I will just have to tell her she can probably expect to see the W, and if she does - she will have to mind herself.

She will probably turn down going - which is a shame because that was a real joy in her life.

I'm not even going to ask the IL's if the W is going to be there in hopes of ging, because they might think they'll do something clever like get us back together so they'd say she had other plans.

BTW - did you see the W's message to me and her L last week to "stop the divorce"? And then her strange answer 24 hours later that she really meant something else entirely? Was this temperature checking or just a kick to the gut? Or possibly a momentary case of honest to gosh cold feet?

I haven't checked in with a coach about it since court was 4 days later, and we were totally back to business as usual - not even her email about working together amicably was on the table any longer.