I forgot to mention, Hawho, that I validated S for how well he is doing helping me out around the house, in front of H. S got a huge smile, and H told him, good job bud.

But, I realize, I missed the opportunity to validate H in front of S about helping around the house today! Next time for sure.

Also, when H was talking to me about work, he explained that the problem he was fixing was the reason he missed our counseling appt. He told me, again, he really didn't mean to miss it. I just said ok, I didn't know what else to say? But I made sure to keep my expression very neutral. Of course, family should come first, but I know that is not his priority right now.

Ok, just wanted to share, time for a movie!


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
-live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-