WW wife is actively in EA or PA. WAW is just tired and done with M
Listen men, a woman does NOT have to be in an A to be wayward!! Get your dictionary out and look up the word wayward.
JB, you tell yourself whatever you want, but it doesn't change things about what she is or is not. But I will warn you that just b/c you have not seen any evidence of an A does not mean she's not cleaver enough to keep it hidden until she gets out of house and has you in a safe distance.
So now, did you ever read any of those books I recommended? That would be a positive action.....and one that you can control.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!