What the heck is this?

[mleigh4]

Great question 2times. I have often wondered the same. It seems they need to hear SOME kind of positive validation, they are obviously seeking it. It's amazing we even want to, isn't it?

When H tells me his work problems, and how he rescued the situation, I always validate with a "good job," or "that was handled well." I myself have struggled with low self esteem, and I know positive validation goes a long way. I continue to eat it up!