My story job 9140 (3)

[daybyday]

I am struggling with the difference myself. I am proceeding to be friendly, but no texting her or no calling her. Very limited contact. She has texted me or called just about everyday for a week since S. I take some calls, I let some go. If it's important, she can leave a message. I answer most texts with basic short and sweets.

My detachment is getting better. The first week is gonna suck like you have never felt. But, and its a big but, it does get better.

On the advice of others and by my own choice I rearranged some furniture, closets, dressers, etc. I am trying to proceed like M is already over. I hope that it's not, but it helps me detach. Just remembering that your W is not the gal you married.(at this particular time). She may return, but there will be lots of work to do on LBH part.

I am no expert, just a short timer trying to help anyway I can.

WW wife is actively in EA or PA. WAW is just tired and done with M. But I believe that they all have some wayward tendencies or they wouldnt walk out on their families.