So H says he's going to come by this weekend to help me with the bills and stuff. How can I have a convo with him about separating bills and our life while still wanting him to come back to me?!
You just do it. I have been told by others that you treat the business aspects as ...business. Its a business transaction. With that said, it is still tough to get into that mindset. My H will be coming over each weekend to help me ready the house for sale. I can talk and listen and validate, but no R talk allowed. I fail here all the time. I am getting better, though. It is also showing that you are willing to give them the space they want. It is respectful, along the lines of not begging or pleading, and necessary.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
