Stepping in a Different Direction

[Sotto]

Hi Feyth, last time I spoke with my H (a good while ago....9 months?) He talked for the whole time about himself and some of the cool stuff he had been up to. I made some positive noises - but then he really persisted, saying he met some important judges doing this. And I realised my noises maybe weren't positive enough for him, and I upped the anti slightly. He asked absolutely nothing about me and I didn't volunteer anything. The dynamics of the convo you describe reminded me of mine. It is like part convincing themselves - hey, my new life is great - and part seeking approval and validation from us.

JMHO of course....sounds like you are doing well Sweetie xx