Not from where I'm sitting. Your W is not thinking about your feelings, only her own. She is excited about her new life......and has the audacity to expect you to show excitement and compliment her new place. She is not being sensitive to your feelings b/c everything is about her.
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My MIL knows the whole sitch and she liked and commented "my great looking SIL" WTH? It's hard not to read into stuff.
Oh the subject of FB. Your MIL could have attempted to keep up appearances, IDK. Your W is going to pay extra attention to what you post......and any female posters responding. Now some LBH'S have used this to their advantage in showing they are GAL and not sitting at home crying over the W. It shows other women are noticing him. He doesn't have to be flirty, or anything, just the fact they are noticing him is enough to hit your W's female antenna. She may not want you, but she doesn't want you getting special attention from other ladies, either. I say not to intentionally set out to cause jealousy, but don't try to avoid it.
Other LBH'S cannot deal with the whole FB situation and block the W, her family, and her closest friends. So, do whatever you can handle, but don't get all frustrated at your W, or her mother, for their responses. It's all how women play the game with the opposite sex, and with each other, and with the public.
I would recommend that you avoid responding to any of your W's FB stuff. Even if she has pictures of her and the child. You are required to let it be known you see and approved. Let her wonder about it. You are Mr. Cool.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
