Hi NYG, in your sitch I think it is good for you to be relatively dim contact-wise. I also favour the do not respond option. After all, if it was something important, she would have left a message.

If you do want to contact her, I would go with something like - hey, noticed I missed a call from you yesterday. I'm around today (but have plans this evening) if you need to get in touch :-)

I think this satisfies your need to respond, keeps it light and let's her know you have a life. Then, just leave it and if she needs to get in touch she will.

Take care & have a good weekend :-)


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