Still moving in a new direction

[mleigh4]

Kml - you crack me up. Yes, I am realizing that more and more.

Cali - no judging here. Ya, it is becoming clearer and clearer that MIL may be behind the madness. It's just strange in that I always thought of H as being spoiled. He does no wrong in his parents eyes. I know MIL loves her children, yet she seems so....cold. It seems to be more of a lack of emotional connection and relationship that went on. A lack of guidance, which would explain the panic attacks he has over S.

Ciluzen, the projection we get is pretty interesting, huh? It helps to see it for what it is. I still am not quite sure what to do about it though! I definitely think both our H would benefit from positive validation.

Bright, thank you so much for the kind words. It really means a lot. I think I am a pretty darn good mommy too!

TGIF. Another crazy busy day at work today. Hard to keep up when feeling sick, but I did. Picked up S after school and we treated the office to frozen yogurt. My poor little guy got stuck staying over an hour late at work with me. Made dinner and am finally curled up on the couch!

We are watching TV, and S turns to me and says he has a secret but I can't get mad. I say, did you break the law? Lol. He said, well, a school law. He told me he woke up this morning at daddy's thinking it was Saturday for some reason. So he got up and just hung out. About 10:30, H woke up and asked S why he didn't wake him up? S said, I thought it was the weekend! S said he didn't get to school until lunchtime. I asked him, did daddy forget to set his alarm?? S said, he set it but doesn't know why it didn't go off. I told S, don't worry, I'm not mad. S said, just surprised? I said ya. I asked S if he wants to take the alarm clock he got for his birthday to keep there, he just shrugged. He said daddy said it was partly his fault and did not get mad.

Weird, huh? I wonder how H explained that one to work. I am more surprised S was confused what day it was, not like him. Unless he was just taking advantage of the situation to avoid school! I won't say anything as promised, I wonder if H will tell me. Geez, I WISH I could sleep until 10:30!