Way Too Late Pt 3

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I couldn't stand it any longer and visited the IL's today, they were delighted. I didn't know my FIL's health was fading as much as it has - so I felt really good about visiting. He had to leave after a bit to go get a blood transfusion.

Last week I said I'd been told not to visit, but wanted to pop in sometime even for a few minutes. My MIL said ignore that and do what's right. She's right. The WW is off with the OM right now, so she won't know anyway.

It's going to be rough on Easter, as I will be invited as will my Mom. The W will certainly be there - and it wouldn't surprise me if she shows up with the OM, just because. So, I will have to bow out - regardless as I don't want to see her anyway. My Mom won't know what's going on - she's too confused and who knows what she'll think in a week.

I would really like to ask the MIL if she knows anything about the "stop the divorce" thing - I have to say that's still eating at me. I know it shouldn't, but it does. I guess I'll have a real good idea of reality a week from Sunday.

The MIL showed me a picture of the W in a magazine today, she said she was going to frame the article. There was a pic of the W with our dog, sitting in her office in my Mom's furniture she won't give back. I bit my lip and didn't say "that's the first time I've seen the dog since 1/27". They have no idea of all the horrible things the W has said and done - other than warning me to stay away from her parents.