VERY IMPORTANT. I need help ASAP!!

[roist]

Only you can read your situation fully, but often we need others to see what we care missing. I can understand your situation. One thing that I have observed here is that there are rarely such make or break deadlines in these situations. Also often what we feel obliged to do is usually the wrong thing to do.

Without being blunt you sound desperate to REact to your situation. It will most likely come across as ssuch to your H.If so it is not attractive. If not it will come across as controlling.

I will admit I don't know your full situation but I have dropped by your thread from time to time.

If you feel that it has a good chance of working, go for it but it would be best if it didn't come from you. If you go before passage of OWsshe has the weekend to react and work on H.

Just a few thoughts I had reading your appeal. I wish you luck