Guys, it's best to keep the mind occupied and not wonder what she is doing, because the fear in us only grows the longer you feed it. I know what you are saying, if only she would not meet another guy and do anything inappropriate. If only...
But in her mind she is done with the marriage and will do as she pleases. I know you guys are clinging to every little ounce of hope, like every day you wake up and pray she would "snap out of it", and see, that true love burns in your heart. Do not hold your breath. Vast majority do stray and I do know that it hurts like a SOB when it happens and we had hoped it would not...
What I am trying to say (and I know I come across like a jerk), do not grow expectations (any expectations), but do have hope. You will find a wonderful place, when you stop caring where she is, what she is doing or who she is doing it with. This is what we call DETACHMENT. And it is an awesome place to be, complete serenity, instead wild raging hurricane roller coaster ride you are on ATM. I do hope I have outlined detachment in a clear enough way.
Vast majority do stray and I do know that it hurts like a SOB when it happens and we had hoped it would not...