I appreciate ALL advice because it may not apply right at this moment, but later down the line I can draw from such things. I don't believe anyone trying to advise me is trying not to help. All of it helps, I just may not be to the point of using it right now.

I am not naïve enough to believe that WAW may be WW. If and when that is discovered, it is a different mind set and ball game.

I guess the easing is not a bad thing. At least we may have more time than if they went straight to the D. Nobody knows how they will feel with the passage of time. Especially if there is still love there. I relate it to that annoying friend at work that we all have. We choose not to be around them because they do things that annoy us. But if that person were to recognize what annoys us, change those things for the better, I for one could start to become friends with that person.

That's why 180's and GAL are so important to us right now. I have a long way to go with both but am doing well in general.


Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent.

Me-50 WAW-45
S13
Married 24 years
Bomb 1-Jan.2008
Disc. EA
She came back for 8 years
Bomb 2-Jan-2016
Separation 3-12-2016