Hey Day & OTW

Thanks for your support.

W just emailed me to called her and so I did about n hour later. THis is after two emails to me about of course, sale of the house and kids.

Well she is busy at work and talked to me about the house stuff, more showings. She wanted to confirm with me so that she didn't have to say to the interested buyers that she didn't know and would have to check with her husband.

I was thinking Ha, you just called me your husband. I know doesn't mean anything.

But she is also not going to be around for the showings because she will be away one night for a bachelorette party this weekend. So I have to deal with the unknown that comes with those type of parties.



And the second was scheduling for the kids, I have to use vacation time to drop off the kids for her at school.

She also told me that she is stressed out and ready to die with what is happening at work and with the house stuff. I just validated.

There is little tension at home now, We did have some arguments about the S agreement but that was me asking questions and her getting mad that I am asking anything.

For the most part we are past that. We can see where we are going and just waiting for it to all fall together.

This time apart thing to see if the MR is worth saving and she cant realize that until we are S is something that will get me through this weekend as she drinks it up and parties. This is one of those tests. One of those things you have no control over. But its one of the times you hope that if there is any love for me its enough to at least stop her from doing anything she would regret later.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016