Thank you V, I wish I had known what "projecting" was back in the early days of my sitch. I think it would have saved me from mentally trying to defend myself over and over.
Mutatio!! Good to have you on here my friend, I appreciate your wisdom. I'm not sure what to do with my STXW. I'm 7 weeks of NC, and I mean NC NC. Haven't even reached out for a photo of my dog since that means talking to her or remembering she's alive.
True story: Last night I actually had a dream that we were getting remarried. The last time this happened my IC, who is a Jungian Analyst, got all excited as he said it was a powerful dream.
Well, in last nights dream, we were about to start the ceremony and I pulled my phone out and texted my best friend, "$20 says she gets up and walks right out in the middle of this."
Funny, but not funny. I guess I'm a little bit wiser the second time around.
Deep breaths yet again today for us all.
PP
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
