Getting out of in house S (8)

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Hey vise. I'm just about to the one week mark of our S. That first day is rough. Especially with no kids and a quiet house. But, the tension that is there now because you two are still in house will be gone. She will get her space and you will too.

Let her have her space and time to think. I have done very well with this so far thanks to support from here. My waw calls or text's me nearly everyday about something related to items in her new apt. Sometimes I take the call, sometimes I don't. Sometimes I text back, sometimes not.

They need to be able to miss us if they are going to. I am no veteran of S and many others have given great advice. Just trying to relay what I have tried. I am trying to proceed with my life as if the M is over and I'm starting new. I miss W like hell. But unless she did the S she would always wonder, as would I, if M is worth saving. You both will at the very least be able to breathe when she is gone.