I feel bad for W - she tells me she's the happiest she's been in the 15 years we've been married, but she doesn't look all that happy. The kids don't see too much of her - when she is home, she's in her bedroom.
No, she's not happy. I don't think she could be truly happy and still be so angry at you. After all, isn't she getting what she said she wants? She may not know it, but she really gives herself away by insisting that she's happier now than all the years she was with you.
It is a strange thing to understand her level of anger, when she was the cheating spouse. If anyone should be filled with rage, it should be the betrayed spouse. However, the cheater files everything she/he does under justification, and everything the betrayed spouse does as the offender. .
Continue to walk straight with your head held high. You have become a man of honor and courage.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
