I hate the Divorced guy/gal stigma also. I keep thinking of the movie, Eat, Pray, Love and how I am that woman right now.... just out there "rebuilding her life" and "rediscovering her true self." They glamorize this life like people can just snap out of it and move on if they take an international vacay and sleep with a bunch of ppl. But ppl don't see what happens at night, on the weekends and in the mornings when the loneliness sets is.
Apparently, my H is crushing it at work also. Makes me kind of upset.
"Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways."