This may be hard to hear but it is because she is trying to not have good memories with you. She has to convince herself she is doing right.

When I was begging and pursuing I would do things for my wife that I knew she loved or were her favorites. There was always an excuse why she didn't want it or she would just flat out lie

It really stinks. I think the only thing you can do is just do not invite anymore. I know she may come around saying things to temp check but ignore them.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15