Hey,

just going to keep it short,

I was of looking after my boys and W came home from work just as we were going to go swimming. Boy asked W to come along.

She says no at first, we get there and I text her that the boys wanted me to ask one more time. She says ok but she doesn't have a membership. I said I set you up you can come. She does go. She get here and the kids are super happy.

We are in the pool and I go to talk to her about when the swimming time is done, she replies with telling me about a house inspection and that I need to clean up to get ready for it.

I was thinking really. I just make small talk and you bring up house stuff. I cant stand it anymore. its painful. Everything she says to me is all business. No hello, no how are you, or it all about the kids. I just left her alone the rest of the swim. We invite her to a small taco place after, she goes. We all eat and its good. She complains about her food, and stops eating. doesn't taste good. I say why not order something else, No she cant there is a bad taste in her mouth.

What is that? we take her out and she complains? Its simple food and I want to be able to take the kids there again. Kids loved the food and thankfully did not hear her.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016