Oh no. What a horrible thing to discover. I am so sorry this has happened to you and your children.

Please do check in on us here. Your thoughts on my own situation have meant a lot to me, and I'm sure to many others, as well. Take care of yourself.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16