What the heck is this?

[HaWho]

That is all very, very helpful. Thank you so much for taking the time to post it all.

Actually, it's oddly reassuring. I was worried that you were going to say he was fully baked, high functioning, etc. and then whoop, back he goes out of the blue.

Do not blame yourself. We all do the best with the info we have at the time we have it. Before we know it's MLC, we learn to trust a person's words (especially if we are dealing with someone who was always forthright.)

Of course your takeaway, to let them complete and keep your changes, is a valuable reminder. But, it's most interesting what your inner voice was saying.

Thank you again.