Reading and following your latest with H and this new parenting theme... Maybe he is working on his issues/FOO stuff through S, and yeah you now are the target for the frustrations left over from mommy dearest. Obviously if he is so concerned dude should have had that session tattooed ... MLCrs do go for tattoos right?
Anyways maybe I'm off base here, but I wouldn't get worked up about it... In fact my house has different rules and W's has hers as your therapist mentioned. Accept that, H was the one who needed ManShack and it's not like you tell him how to run that compound, your turf your rules... I'd listen and MAYBE validate here n there but most likely would give the good ole "sorry you feel that way" and bounce
In my opinion if they want the child to live under the exact same rules it would have to be as a family under one house, and we would negotiate the rules/boundaries then lay them out
