Tleft, and so it begins

[CWOL]

To answer the question directly, I have not looked for signs of an affair. I do not think that W would do that, it just isn't the kind of person she is. Then again, this entire thing is very out of character for her.

Yes, my WW used to hear about acquaintances who cheated on their spouses and said how they disgust her. I guess she doesn't hold herself to the same standard!