Tleft, and so it begins

[TimR]

Hi TLeft. I am sorry you are going through the same thing as the rest of us here. This will be the worst possible experience of your life and yet you will survive and get through it.

As far as the A question. I just want to share what happened to me. I discovered what would seem to clearly be an A on social media. I confronted and WW denied. I dug further and found even more, again I confronted and she got angry told me she answered me and was not answering again. I caught her car at his house, took pictures of it, left before I got out of my car and killed him, text it to her, and yet she still denied it. He has been at her house often and she threatened S if he told me, he would never see me again!

My wife left her last relationship because he cheated on her and physically abused her. She always told me if she were to cheat she would just break up with me first and if I ever thought of cheating I should do the same. She always said she could never do that to her worst enemy. Apparently, she could to her husband.

I cannot tell you to snoop. I cannot tell you whether it is better or not to know. If you suspect, I cannot tell you whether it is better or not to confirm. I can only share my experience with you. I have no idea about your W, only you know your sitch.

I wish you the best of luck. Please work on yourself, read the threads sent to you and read the books.