Need practical ideas to aid my 180/Last Resort.WAW

[bigybiz]

MrBond - do you have a list you could share? I'd like to see what another person's looks like. Mine I guess is more a list of what I want.

[sandi2]

I'd like to hear from men who have got their WAW/WW back.

Most of the ones who saved their M has retired from the board. We did have a member to check in last month, and said things were looking very good. Don't completely discredit some members over in the Divorced group, b/c they have good advice. You can be perfect at DBing and not be able to save your M, b/c the M has two people, not just one. You can't control what the other spouse does.


Search for RysinMn.

[bigybiz]

Thanks Sandi2. I was hoping for some encouragement from someone who was successful.

[bigybiz]

MrBond - Are there any resources you can recco on this whole issue of control and the perception? Obv this is something I need to address. Input from you and others would be great.

[bigybiz]

Hi Sandi2, Cadet and all others. Where can I find out what the differences are between WAW & WW? Also, and which approach(es) work best.

[Vapo]

Hi Sandi2, Cadet and all others. Where can I find out what the differences are between WAW & WW? Also, and which approach(es) work best.

Dude, quit looking for a silver bullet, there is none. Give it a rest.

[sandi2]

Hi Sandi2, Cadet and all others. Where can I find out what the differences are between WAW & WW? Also, and which approach(es) work best.

It is located in your homework that Cadet sent you. Have you read those links?

[bigybiz]

Thanks Sandi2. There was lots of info there. It's good to go over them a few times.

[sandi2]

Did you find the one you were wanting?

[bigybiz]

Sandi2:

Thanks - Yes, I've been gong over the guide for LBH and other similar posts. I was really inspired by a story Virginia posted by Joe. I hope that will be me soon.

Here is today's problem. Easter weekend is coming. So far the W has participated in my family events - B'day's etc. Despite the fact that we are in house sep and she says she can't forgive me, etc, etc.

Should we go to family events on Good Friday - what worse should we host one on Easter Sunday?

The coach said involving her in family events is a good idea. But, the having her cake thing is causing me confusion.

Please post away. I need the community's input.