Sorry I would have to disagree with Painter. I would have you send them to your L but not to your wife's L. First off they will most likely just send them back your L with a letter asking your L to speak with you about contacting them directly. Second they may just throw them away. Third you may give away a strategy or card your L is holding close to the vest.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16