Sorry I would have to disagree with Painter. I would have you send them to your L but not to your wife's L. First off they will most likely just send them back your L with a letter asking your L to speak with you about contacting them directly. Second they may just throw them away. Third you may give away a strategy or card your L is holding close to the vest.
Me 41 W 33 M 2013 Suspect A 11/15 Confirm A 1/16 She moved out 2/14/16 Stepson 13 Stepson 16