I laughed out loud at your going through the store "witness protection style." LOL! And of course, it's funny to see him keeping tabs on you when you are not sitting on your hands waiting.
I am curious about how your h seemed when he was done with this first MLC? If you have a moment can you write a bit about when he woke up and came back to the m? Were there small red flags along the way that something was still off or did he seem well done? Did it all start the same way the second time?
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced