Spoke to my L yesterday...only took three emails and a phone call to get a response from her. Apparently she still hasn't heard a peep from my STXW's L which is odd. Not odd in any positive sense, just more odd in the "everything since BD has been confusing" sense.
When I left home two months ago my W was angry that I was stalling the D, and her attorney had told her that this was a ploy by me. She actually called me two faced and said I was a hypocrite and a liar. Yet as of yesterday, (if my L is telling the truth) they haven't moved at all on this.
My STXW was very clear on my last day that she wasn't a D, wants this all taken care of by the time I leave the country in a few weeks, and hopes I find someone who loves me and wants to be with me - and reiterated that person wasn't her! (such a love)
Doesn't change anything, it actually frustrates me a bit at this point as it appears to be mixed messages. Like so many people on here it feels like a slow meander down the plank, although it does feel like the waters below have a lot more potential for fun and excitement than they are filled with hungry sharks.
Sincerely,
A slightly confused PP.
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
