Hi Sotto, I purposely did not remind H. I did that because of his preaching to me about responsibility, ungratefulness and laziness. I knew I was taking a chance on him with this appt, it was all something I needed to prove to myself. That he is the one living and having these issues, not me. It was for me.

Job, you gave me something to really chew on there. H could very well be projecting on S the problems he sees in himself. It makes sense. How can I protect S from that???

I talked to S last night about 2 different houses, different rules and the importance of respecting both parents. He was in a playing mood, so he made comments about not listening to daddy and not going over there, he was laughing. Honestly, he was being silly, so I will revisit that at a better time.


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
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