Yeah I am getting there. The situation is so fluid though that it's hard to get a solid grasp on it. I took my wife breakfast yesterday and she said % llbut she already ate. I was going to take it back with me, but she told me not to, that she would eat it for lunch. Well she ended up warming it up and eating it this morning! I thought I totally messed up and was pursuing too much, but I guess not? Maybe it's the DBing that I've been doing up to now that set it up for her to be more receptive...or maybe I'm looking too much into it. Anyways positive start to the day!