Good for you and just to clarify what I understand to be the difference between the different contacts - dim, dark and NC.

NC - is where you have applied a boundary - Please stop contacting me, and then you don't respond when he does.

Dark - is where there is no boundary, and you just don't respond when he contacts you.

Dim - is where you generally don't initiate contact and respond minimally/sometimes when he gets in touch.

I think dim is the most commonly seen on the forum. Though posters like Dawn have gone dark (after D) to emails from her XH saying I miss you etc when he is living with OW. Dim sounds okay to me for you though....

Xx

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Me 48 H 46
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BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

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