I was wondering what I should do in this sitch. I've been doing NC, going dark. My x texted me that one of our dogs we used to share is getting spayed tomorrow. I just replied "give her a good luck kiss from me". My question is to I leave it at that or do I say "I'm trying to move on like you have so please don't text or call"??


T-20 yrs M- 7yrs
Me-46 XH- 44
S15, S21
1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07
1yr separation, my decision-2012
His PA started Aug 2016
I moved out Sept/16
He's been with OW ever since