Hey roiste, i love it. Period.

I will only caution how long this shift in your mindset will take before wife belives iy is not just a ploy. That is why consistentcy is imparative.

Honestly though, if this path is a genuine feeling from you...which it certainly sounds like to me, then it wont matter what the hell wife thinks.

Very big bro hug from chicago

M - 40's
W - 30's
Two Sons
Living together