I'm glad that you and the kids were able to get away for a bit last weekend. A farm is a wonderful place to live and/or visit. I'm sure the kids enjoyed being around the animals. I'm also glad that your D had a great party and could enjoy herself.
It sounds like your w's boss is a piece of work. Things in her work place don't sound all that stable and has some tension. The only thing you can do is listen and validate, which you did.
You are handling your situation well. Keep up the good work!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
